Wednesday, November 4, 2009

The Wedding Countdown- Part 1




All brides want to look their best for their big day. You take so long to choose all the right details of the BIG day you want to look fabulous too. So what do you do, vow to loose weight before the wedding day. This only is a lot of pressure. Set a realistic goal. Do you normally work out? Do you loose weight easily? Here are some tips to help you reach your goal:

1. Do not go out and buy a gown smaller then your current size.  Brides planning a wedding is stressful enough, and stress affects us all differently. Know your body do you gain weight or loose when you are stressed. Do you tend to overeat, not eat at all? These are important things to know about yourself.

2. Design a excercise and diet plan.  All fads do not work. Every time you turn around there is some loose weight quick scheme. All diets do not work for all people. Just because your girlfriend lost weight on the Cabbage Soup diet or the Grapefruit diet does not mean this will work for you. Cut out or limit your sweet intake. I am not a dietician but remember "whites turn to sugar" you know rice, white bread, pototoes etc. Decide how many times you will excercise a week and stick to it. When I was going to the gym on a regular basis, although weight was not melting off of me, I felt more energized, focused and it was a great stress reliever for me.  Consult with a professional and discuss your goals, they can help you choose the excerises best fit for you. Don't forget to consult your physician as well.

3.Give yourself enough time to reach your goal.  Don't slack of all year and then two months before the wedding expect to drop from a size 12 to an 8.

4.Watch out for salty foods. Salty foods make your body retain water. Remember be healthy. This also goes for alcohol...another no no... plenty of empty calories ladies.

5. This is the most important in my opinion. Do it for the right reasons. Remember your fiance' popped the question just as you are. He loves you. This is the start of your life together. Excercise is always a healthy choice, but don't cause yourself more stress trying to become someone else or the idea of what a bride is suppose to be.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Vendor Spotlight: Casey Does Hair


Vendor Spotlight: Casey Powell


Your name? Casey Powell

Company Name: Casey Does Hair

Website: www.caseydoeshair.com

Blog n/a

Years in Business: 5

How did you get started? I started out working in a full service salon that had lots of wedding parties come in. I started helping other stylists and found that I really enjoyed doing wedding hairstyles, probably more than any of the stylists I learned from! Since then, I've focused on and specialize in styling hair for weddings.

Best advice you can give to a bride: Have a trial run and have all of your vendors come to you!

What has been your strangest request? A bride asked if she could wear a painters mask while I did her hair because of the hairspray.

Do you work with an assistant? I have another stylist come with me if working on a large amount of people's hair on the wedding day.

What would you say is your style? I try to keep on top of the trends in Fashion, Hair and Makeup for my clients. So, I feel like my style is constantly evolving from the exposure.

Who is the person you most admire? Kimtasha Armstrong - I met her about a year into starting my business. She's a very successful Makeup Artist. I admire her professionalism, her amazing talent and beautiful personality. I try to model myself after her as a business woman.

Who is the person that inspired you? I'm going to say Kimtasha, again. Working with her has given me the inspiration to get my business where it is today.

What is your proudest moment in your business? Being featured in Jacksonville Magazine's Bride.



Monday, October 19, 2009

Wedding Etiquette:Thank You Notes


Writing thank you notes at the end of the wedding can be a tiring task but it is something that should be done within three months of your wedding. Your thank you notes should be handwritten and you should try to match your stationery to the theme of your wedding. During the wedding process once you start receiving gifts you should have some method of keeping track of gifts and who sent them. One great program that I give to my brides is the IDO software for couples. There are some free programs out there such as The Knot and similar websites. You can even create a spreadsheet on Excel.

Gifts that arrive prior to the wedding should receive their thank you notes first. Thank them for attending the wedding, don't forget to mention the gift they sent. Don't just say..."Thanks for the great gift." that is not personal, and leads the guest to think you have no idea as to what they sent to you. Personalize each note.
You should also write thank you notes for guest that attended but did not bring a gift. Remember they still took the time out to come celebrate your wedding with you. You should also write a thank you to your vendors, especially for the vendors that went above and beyond. Vendors love receiving recognition for a job well done, and can put your notes into their testimonials. After all didn't you want to see testimonials from prior brides before you booked that vendor.

You should write thank you notes for your engagement party within two to three weeks of the event. Thank you notes for gifts received prior to the wedding should be written as soon as possible but prior to the wedding. You have up to three months to write thank you notes for gifts received the day of your wedding. If you receive any gifts after they wedding they should be written as you receive them.

If you received a monetary gift or chose to do a honeymoon registry, share with your note what the gift was being used towards not the amount received. For instance if you used the money towards the saving for a home, or things purchased for the home, etc. Remember this is the last impression your guest receive of you as a new couple.

Sunday, October 18, 2009

The Florida Times Union


Our "Wedding Wishes" winning couple Bobby and Leilani Jones were featured in today's Sunday paper. If you would like to read more and you don't live in this area or didn't get the paper today you can find the article online.

Friday, October 16, 2009

The Fourth Ring Finger

A fellow wedding vendor posted this on facebook. I thought is was very interesting. You can't just watch it, you have to do it.

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Vendor Spotlight: Ten23 Designs



Ten 23 Designs



Your name? Lauren Sarnoff Atwaters




Company Name: Ten23 Designs



Website: www.ten23designs.com



Blog: www.ten23designs.blogspot.com



Years in Business: Almost a year and a half, however I just kind of fell into business so my official launch in October 23, 2009 (2 weeks)



How did you get started? I designed many monogram elements in my own wedding & received my first order before the wedding day was over. The orders kept coming in after then… and I just kind of “fell” into business.



Best advice you can give to a bride? Don’t stress the small stuff… and it’s all small stuff. Just like the book my mother always told me to read. When the big day comes, all of the things that didn’t go the way you wanted disappear.



What has been your strangest request? I was asked to design a decal for a wife (which looked like her) to put in the corner of her husband’s television screen.



Do you work with an assistant? My husband & 11 year old son help me when a little help is needed. My 6 month old daughter watches over us making sure we do a good job.



What would you say is your style? Modtempvintiscalative (modern, temporary, vintage, whimsical & creative)



Who is the person you most admire? I admire my father for his strength & wisdom. He is willing to lend a helping hand to anyone even if he does not agree with them. He sets a good example for others to follow.



Who is the person that inspired you? I had many people tell me I should do this & they believe in me, but when I heard it from my son, Isaac, I heard it almost as a command. He looks up to me & even though he doesn’t know it, I look up to him too.





What is your proudest moment in your business? I have a “proudest moment” feeling each time someone in the industry shows interest in my work… such as yourself.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Happy Birthday to my husband!!


Happy Birthday to my husband Alonzo. I love you so much. Thank you for everything!